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BraindG
08-02-2007, 11:37 PM
At the last committee meeting it was decided that a new forum will be created if the clubs better halves would like one :D I believe this topic has been discussed a few times on the forums.

So, If the ladies would like an area dedicated to yourselves heres you chance to name it! /yes - yup, thats right :D anything you like! (within reason of course)

Once a name has been decided, the forum will be created within the General area.

:scholar:

Lillywotsername
08-02-2007, 11:39 PM
Woohoo.... WTG guys.

Thanks heaps for this.....:iloveyou: all

I-S
08-02-2007, 11:46 PM
It should cater for male significant others for those such as little miss road rage. A widower's forum if you like :p

ANTHONY
08-02-2007, 11:52 PM
Once a name has been decided,

:scholar: that should take a few weeks then.... if its any thing like a lady shopping /pan

BraindG
08-02-2007, 11:55 PM
oops, ive moved it to site ideas!...

not everyone has membership :p

Spirit
09-02-2007, 12:36 AM
How about......"T*ts R Us" ? /lol

soapy1978
09-02-2007, 01:39 AM
how about :

clubvr4 widower's

Nick VR4
09-02-2007, 08:30 AM
Easy call it VR4-WAGS

Wouter
09-02-2007, 08:39 AM
What a good idea!

But how about we let them choose the name!

BraindG
09-02-2007, 09:27 AM
But how about we let them choose the name!
:p consider yoursleves told /haz

Lillywotsername
09-02-2007, 10:28 AM
that should take a few weeks then.... if its any thing like a lady shopping /pan
Now you say that Tony .... but the thing we have to decide is whether or not to give it a "GIRLY" name or to try and find one more "family" orientated.

This could take a while..../pan

How long have we got to name it Barry?

Just to throw a couple of names in the pot.....

Coffee Morning
CVR4 WAGS
Woman's Hour
Widows Retreat ( Richys idea)

I dunno.... They are a bit cr@p but we have to be seen to be making an effort on this.

Come on ladies.... Get you thinking caps on:iloveyou:

BraindG
09-02-2007, 11:07 AM
How long have we got to name it Barry?


As long as it takes really, im in no hurry to push it through.

Spirit
09-02-2007, 11:19 AM
Lorraine

Get a list of names and have a poll on it........sorted !

The name of the forum can always be changed in the future if necessary of course :happy:

Nutter_John
09-02-2007, 12:10 PM
how about calling it

the Priory - Rehab for Car Widows

I-S
09-02-2007, 12:25 PM
"Wysteria Forum"

colVR4
09-02-2007, 04:04 PM
How about

'Girls Allowed'

Works on so many levels.

Alex
09-02-2007, 07:23 PM
Woohoo!! Thanks guys - much appreciated :iloveyou:

I'll put my thinking cap on and see what I can come up with. I'll also contact the other widows for ideas. I reckon some of the widows might be on here a little more once we've got this up and running :thumbsup:

bradc
10-02-2007, 02:54 AM
leg shavers only...might rule out some of the girly guys though, like both Steves and Richy :)

psbarham
10-02-2007, 10:45 AM
would it be possible to have their section in white ? just like a majority of kitchen appliances , they feel right at home then .

ANTHONY
10-02-2007, 10:47 AM
would it be possible to have their section in white ? just like a majority of kitchen appliances , they feel right at home then .YOU BRAVE MAN I WAS JUST THINKING THAT

psbarham
10-02-2007, 01:49 PM
YOU BRAVE MAN I WAS JUST THINKING THAT
/Devil5 /Devil5 /Devil5

Alex
10-02-2007, 02:26 PM
Maybe we could change the other forums to a brown background - to reflect the fact that your name's mud?? :P

bradc
10-02-2007, 07:18 PM
Or bright orange to keep Kieran happy :)

Kieran
10-02-2007, 07:48 PM
Or bright orange to keep Kieran happy :)

/pan

KiwiTT
11-02-2007, 10:42 PM
How about

Barefoot, Elegant, T**s & Teeth, Equal, Reliable and Home Administrator, Looking Fine - forum

i.e. the Better-Half forum. :D

WildCards
11-02-2007, 10:50 PM
The 'I can't decide' forum

The 'Typical' Forum

The 'What are you going to wear' forum

The 'Oooh I know' Forum

Nutter_John
11-02-2007, 10:56 PM
or the "does my bum look big in this forum" :p

Physician
11-02-2007, 11:49 PM
'Divine Debaters'

'Her Indoors'

'The Better Half'

'The Sirens'

'Pussy Posse':thinking:

'Babes'

'The Hareem'

VR-04-TT
12-02-2007, 02:56 AM
or the "does my bum look big in this forum" :p

I think I just shot coke out my nose :laugh:

Physician
12-02-2007, 07:54 AM
I think I just shot coke out my nose :laugh:

Yea, lol .......... however, I don't think Nutter_John will read your post.

He was murdered last night by a group of young women /pan


:happy: :happy: :happy:

Nutter_John
12-02-2007, 09:42 AM
:p the ladies all know i'm joking /lol

Lillywotsername
12-02-2007, 01:27 PM
:p the ladies all know i'm joking /lol
Do We............./Grrr /Grrr /pan /pan

Besides... I already know my bum looks big in whatever I am wearing..... So why would I have to ask???????:speechles :inquisiti

BraindG
14-02-2007, 10:47 AM
bump for the ladies, ive only seen Lilly reply. Does this mean its a bad idea?

richy rich
14-02-2007, 11:14 AM
bump for the ladies, ive only seen Lilly reply. Does this mean its a bad idea?

so how wrote this then/pan /pan /pan


Maybe we could change the other forums to a brown background - to reflect the fact that your name's mud?? :P

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 11:59 AM
New idea.....

Wineaholics anonymous

bernmc
14-02-2007, 01:56 PM
As the *only* gay on this forum, I demand an 'only gay on the forum' forum.

What's wot, wot?

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 02:03 PM
I know the offer was made for us "ladies" ( that includes you Bern and the other Homo in the club) But tbh I think we are struggling a bit.

We know we would like it a family oriantated forum.... as I think if its all girly then it won't be a place where the men would want to visit.

So feel free to start throwing ideas our way again......

Nutter_John
14-02-2007, 02:06 PM
how about the -----

lifeboat forum

why you say think about it !!!!!!

no not got it

because in a lifeboat women and children go first

ok ok I iwll get my coat

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 02:09 PM
ok ok I iwll get my coat
And start running if I were you.../Grrr

BraindG
14-02-2007, 03:01 PM
or just Wives and Girlfriends :inquisiti

bernmc
14-02-2007, 03:09 PM
( that includes you Bern and the other Homo in the club)

No... I think I made it clear... *I* am the only gay in this club :|.

WildCards
14-02-2007, 03:21 PM
No... I think I made it clear... *I* am the only gay in this club :|.

No mate, Richy is known to dabble with man meat from time to time, Lily is just in denial. I also have my concerns over Brunty, which are shared by his mother and as we all know something fishy has been going on between Barry and Dereck for some time :p

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 03:38 PM
or just Wives and Girlfriends :inquisiti
/YMaster WAGS it is:iloveyou:

Vicky Mann
14-02-2007, 03:47 PM
I have been trying to come up with a name for the forum since it was first mention and have had no brainwaves yet.

The reason I think we’re struggling is that we don’t really want to make it exclusively a female zone (or maybe suggest that in the name?). I think the consensus between the widows I have spoken to is that it should be for wives/girlfriend/families/husbands/boyfriends/whoever of the real car enthusiast who want to have an area to feel comfortable posting in. I am always very conscious of what I post as I want it interpreted in the way I mean it which is very difficult with the written word as you can’t see expressions or hear the tone of voice etc.

Any thoughts?

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 03:48 PM
How about..... XX Factor

The female sex chromosome is made up with 2 x's ... If you want to keep it girly.

Correct me if I am wrong Bern.

Brunty
14-02-2007, 03:57 PM
Coooeee!


When's this forum up and running then - I want some advice on moisturising!












:thinking:

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 04:01 PM
Coooeee!


When's this forum up and running then - I want some advice on moisturising! :thinking:
Don't know about moisturising Steve.. But got some good tips on waxing....:evilgrin: /STP /Devil5

RED
14-02-2007, 04:56 PM
What about - Dreamgirls

SGHOM
14-02-2007, 04:58 PM
But got some good tips on waxing....:evilgrin: /STP /Devil5

back..crack.. & sack for Steve then ?? :speechles :happy: :happy:

Spirit
14-02-2007, 05:22 PM
I am working on another committee task at the moment and one of my ideas for a rename was

"THE LOUNGE", with a description of "Chill out here while the other half talks cars"

It conveys a relaxed atmosphere, but we will have to try and differentiate between this and "General Chat".

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 05:32 PM
Ok the list up to date......... In order posted.

"T*ts R Us"
VR4-WAGS
Coffee Morning
CVR4 WAGS
Woman's Hour
Widows Retreat
the Priory - Rehab for Car Widows
Wysteria Forum
Girls Allowed'
leg shavers only
the Better-Half forum
does my bum look big in this forum
I can't decide' forum
The 'Typical' Forum
The 'What are you going to wear' forum
The 'Oooh I know' Forum
Divine Debaters'
'Her Indoors'
'The Better Half'
The Sirens'
Pussy Posse'
Babes'
The Hareem
Wineaholics anonymous
lifeboat forum
Wives and Girlfriends
XX Factor
Dreamgirls
THE LOUNGE

Thats the list so far.......... any more ideas.


Ps I do like the Lounge idea Pete.

WildCards
14-02-2007, 05:56 PM
I quite like widows retreat or the lounge

Why don't you put it to a poll Lily?

Nick Mann
14-02-2007, 06:08 PM
As none of you have taken any notice of my better halfs post, can I take her sentiments, add it to Petes idea, and propose 'The Family Room'. Dead boring, I know, but seems to highlight the who its for and what its for?

Lillywotsername
14-02-2007, 06:12 PM
As none of you have taken any notice of my better halfs post, can I take her sentiments, add it to Petes idea, and propose 'The Family Room'. Dead boring, I know, but seems to highlight the who its for and what its for?
I did pay attention to Vicky's post Nick /Grrr ..... But she didn't come up with a name.

We all feel the same.... Not that I am ignoring her at all.... yes I like the family room as well.

Will get a poll together when we get a bit more in-put from the the widows..... don't want to count anyone out from suggesting a name.

Kieran
14-02-2007, 06:52 PM
Well, I like the Lounge too, but it's not really my call. I'm sure Alex will tell me what my preference is shortly.../YMaster /YMaster

Vicky Mann
14-02-2007, 06:56 PM
I like The Lounge too!

Spirit
14-02-2007, 10:35 PM
I like The Lounge too!

It was your previous post that actually inspired me to post up that idea Vicky....I was trying to keep out of it :happy:

SGHOM
14-02-2007, 10:40 PM
I like The Lounge too!
make's a change from the bedroom !! :happy: :smug: /lol /lol :love:

Vicky Mann
14-02-2007, 10:44 PM
Thanks Pete :iloveyou:

lol at Derek!!!

Nick Mann
14-02-2007, 10:50 PM
Did I come accross as upset in my last post? Sorry!! I didn't mean it to sound like I was ranting!! :p I like the informal relaxing idea that the lounge puts accross too. Hence my suggestion, to see if it could sound more like it was orientated towards all people who have lost a loved one to Mitsubishi Ownership!

Kieran
14-02-2007, 11:02 PM
Did I come accross as upset in my last post? Sorry!! I didn't mean it to sound like I was ranting!! :p

That's okay Nick, we all know you're a tetchy sod! /Nuuu /Devil5

Physician
15-02-2007, 12:06 AM
I like the Lounge as well :happy:

However, I just thought of another possibility for the ladies to consider - 'Room 101' (or any suitable number)

BraindG
15-02-2007, 09:34 AM
tbh, if anything should be called "the lounge" it should be general chat, this would stop people posting car related stuff in there, which happens quite often.

Nick Mann
15-02-2007, 10:29 AM
tbh, if anything should be called "the lounge" it should be general chat, this would stop people posting car related stuff in there, which happens quite often.

So where would I post about a car that wasn't a Galant? :inquisiti

BraindG
15-02-2007, 10:34 AM
So where would I post about a car that wasn't a Galant? :inquisiti
the lounge would suffice, when i said car related stuff i meant galant/legnum stuff. /whistles

Nick Mann
15-02-2007, 10:47 AM
the lounge would suffice, when i said car related stuff i meant galant/legnum stuff. /whistles


Ahhh... lol! So when you said car you meant THE car!!

But part of the point of the new forum is to be a completely car free area isn't it? Or have I missed the point? Maybe the forum descriptions will be more important than the actual name then.

BraindG
15-02-2007, 10:53 AM
mebbe ive missed the point, perhaps speed reading this threads latest posts hasn't helped.... but, the way I see it is that we are adding a forum for the ladies which may, or may not contain car related stuff.. this forum I thought would be a safe haven for the ladies to be have a chat.

I just felt that with the renaming/description "Project" we have in place could see the current general chat forum being renamed to "the lounge" (for example) to ensure Galant/Legnum chat is kept to either technical forums, or the uk/nz chat forums. This again would help with the search ability of Galant/Legnum Forums as our forum members wouldn't have to highlight this forum to search for keywords, thus removing a certain amount of returns on the search results. (which is a problem in itself that im addressing with the how to find information using search how to guide.)

Lillywotsername
15-02-2007, 11:04 AM
So what are we going to do then......

Are you planning on changing the "general chat" to the lounge or is it a name that we can use for our Forum....?

I am getting confused now...... not that its hard to do, but we need to know.

BraindG
15-02-2007, 11:07 AM
original plan still stands, the naming of a ladies only forum.

im kinda diverting here sorry.

Nick Mann
15-02-2007, 11:07 AM
And so is the Widows forum going to be in the UK section?

BraindG
15-02-2007, 11:20 AM
personally i think best under the General area.

Nick Mann
15-02-2007, 11:26 AM
original plan still stands, the naming of a ladies only forum.

im kinda diverting here sorry.

Nope, this is all good discussion! Everyone is learning....

So what about this:

I think the consensus between the widows I have spoken to is that it should be for wives/girlfriend/families/husbands/boyfriends/whoever of the real car enthusiast who want to have an area to feel comfortable posting in.

BraindG
15-02-2007, 11:51 AM
ah ok, sorry I get what's being discussed now :p

The conversion of the General Chat forum name is quite possibly a good way forwards in regards to the ladies forum. It would help (hopefully) eliminate the Galant/Legnum Questions/Chat which is my primary concern. If people are happy with with option, I am happy, its a good idea to categorically define this forum as "something-other-than-galant/legnum"

As this forum grows, so the the references to keywords used, such as spring, block, hub carrier etc... Thing is they may not be related to our cars, thus when someone searches (including the currently names general chat forum) "change suspension" they may pick up a thread where someone posted something like.... did you see the F1 last night, for a change I watched it all, I couldn't believe the suspension on Buttons car collapsed on the last lap"..

this is just an little example and a small part of my search-ability/renaming/description, plan, I am looking ahead a couple years mind.

Alex
15-02-2007, 07:23 PM
Sorry I haven't been participating in this discussion much guys - I've had a whole load of stuff kick off at work this week, so just haven't been on line.

Anyhow, I have to agree with the sentiment that it shouldn't be just the girls. 'Widows' is really just a term we've coined to reflect the fact that we are abandoned by our other halves when ever there's a galant within a 50 mile radius!! Just because we haven't got any male 'members' yet doesn't mean they should be excluded. IMHO.

I have been trying to think of names, but I don't have any greatly inspiring ideas - Family Zone is about as far as I got, and I'm not enamoured. Have to say, I really like John's idea of The Priory - I like the idea of rehabilitation for non-car enthusiasts :)

How about we now thin down the list a little, and then put up a poll as has been suggested?

Physician
15-02-2007, 07:50 PM
........... a pole

lol /pan

Alex
15-02-2007, 08:14 PM
Doh - and it isn't the first time I've done that either /wall

My spelling's never been great - I apologise. Now edited. :)

Lillywotsername
15-02-2007, 08:18 PM
Ok going to get a poll ( not pole ) sorted....

Short list so far.... Please add this evening for any extras you want putting on.

The Priory
The Lounge
The Family Room
Widows Retreat
CVR4 Wags
Better halfs Forum


Thanks Lilly

Vicky Mann
15-02-2007, 08:21 PM
However, I just thought of another possibility for the ladies to consider - 'Room 101' (or any suitable number)You mean you want to banish us?! :undecided :P

Physician
15-02-2007, 08:30 PM
You mean you want to banish us?! :undecided :P

Would I dare say, or even suggest that Vicky? No way, I'm a coward :thinking:

KiwiTT
15-02-2007, 08:48 PM
I this like the Better Halfs forum

WildCards
15-02-2007, 08:57 PM
Following on from Rich's idea, what about Room 666? /lol

Lillywotsername
15-02-2007, 09:01 PM
Following on from Rich's idea, what about Room 666? /lol
What about ..... you asking Kate what she would like.:happy:

Physician
15-02-2007, 09:08 PM
I like your new little pussy Lilly :inquisiti

HJM
15-02-2007, 09:11 PM
I like your new little pussy Lilly :inquisiti

I was thinking that too :)


J

The Vee
15-02-2007, 09:50 PM
I was thinking that too :)


J


:speechles :speechles :speechles /pan /pan /pan

Don't be drawn in by that naughty young man from Leicester!!

Kieran
15-02-2007, 10:14 PM
Don't be drawn in by that naughty young man from Leicester!!

Who, Steve?

Maggie
15-02-2007, 10:19 PM
/pan /pan /pan :iloveyou: :happy: :happy: /pan
make's a change from the bedroom !! :happy: :smug: /lol /lol :love:

Hey you dont be rude and get back in that KITCHEN you got dishes to do/pan

WildCards
15-02-2007, 10:31 PM
I'll ask her when she gets in Alex.

Don't get me confused with Richard please. I'm no where near his league of sexual innuendo, i've got at least another 40 years of experience to catch up with.

Alex
15-02-2007, 10:36 PM
I'll ask her when she gets in Alex.

Don't get me confused with Richard please. I'm no where near his league of sexual innuendo, i've got at least another 40 years of experience to catch up with.

Steve honey, I'm not getting you confused with anyone.

You on the otherhand, don't seem to know the difference between me and Lilly /pan

:iloveyou:

WildCards
15-02-2007, 10:41 PM
Sorry. reading the forums and watching tele at the same time


luuuuuv youuuu

HJM
15-02-2007, 10:42 PM
Sorry. reading the forums and watching tele at the same time


Ha, yet more evidence (if it were needed) of mens inability to ......................

.................... well, you know :scholar:


J :)

Lillywotsername
15-02-2007, 10:43 PM
Sorry. reading the forums and watching tele at the same time


luuuuuv youuuu
This confirms what we already know Steve..... Stop trying to multi task.... you are not capable of it...:iloveyou: :iloveyou: :iloveyou:

Alex
15-02-2007, 10:46 PM
Sorry. reading the forums and watching tele at the same time


luuuuuv youuuu


I'll let you off - but make sure you get Kate to vote on that poll please :)

WildCards
15-02-2007, 10:46 PM
yeah yeah

Kieran
15-02-2007, 11:05 PM
Just because you lot are getting your own forum! Don't start getting lippy!/pan

Especially not you, Lilly! I've told you before I'll slap your legs young lady! /Devil5

Cleaning Lady
15-02-2007, 11:24 PM
I'll let you off - but make sure you get Kate to vote on that poll please :)

Hello, Steve demanded I came and voted as soon as I got in as says he's getting earache...probably from the TV BLAAAAARRRRING!!!!


I like the lounge, don't think I qualify as a VR4 Widow since his baby got burnt, we miss it...especially on long journeys! BOO HOO...:baby:

Physician
15-02-2007, 11:44 PM
Don't get me confused with Richard please ........, i've got at least another 40 years of experience to catch up with.

Aha! Your statement explains much ........ on YOUR calculations then - you are 15 or less!

WildCards
16-02-2007, 12:18 AM
Aha! Your statement explains much ........ on YOUR calculations then - you are 15 or less!

either that or you look older than...

bradc
16-02-2007, 08:58 AM
holy **** you're 55? damn (realises that was a rude thing to say and runs)

Kate, you are definately welcome to vote, just try and convince Steve to buy another VR-4 :) There are two nice ones for sale at the moment, Gary's and the other Steve's

Physician
16-02-2007, 09:05 AM
holy **** you're 55? damn (realises that was a rude thing to say and runs)



Don't you start as well /pan

:happy:

bradc
16-02-2007, 09:07 AM
I haven't started yet :)

Lillywotsername
16-02-2007, 09:22 AM
I like the lounge, don't think I qualify as a VR4 Widow since his baby got burnt, we miss it...especially on long journeys! BOO HOO...:baby:
Kate .... you may not be a vr4 widow.... but you ARE still a cvr4 widow.
We need you now more than ever...../grouphug /grouphug :iloveyou:

Alex
16-02-2007, 07:56 PM
Kate .... you may not be a vr4 widow.... but you ARE still a cvr4 widow.
We need you now more than ever...../grouphug /grouphug :iloveyou:


Yep - wot Lilly said.

Besides - I bet you still find that Steve abandones you whenever there's a VR4 within a 5 mile radius - even if it's not his own!! That qualifies you in my book :)

Hope to see you soon mate

Alex
xx