Good to see you back D
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Liz is originally from Glasgow..... so I ain't got a fecking clue what she's on about !!
So the problem isn't intoxication...
Take it easy D! If you ever feel down you should just think back to the firework party at yours in 2004.
And good luck with Liz. If you still have the number plate that could be useful? !
gave the ball a good kick last night with pinot grigio !!Originally Posted by chris g
Good to hear matey hope all goes well with the new target ahem I mean lady
Good to hear matey hope all goes well with the new target ahem I mean lady
pfft.you snooze... you lose
Never got chance to ask her out....... ah well.
She asked me out !!lunch tomorrow!
Derek, you appear to be completely back to normal. I feel much more at home knowing that I should be second guessing your posts again!
Having just read this thread from the start I was going to say if you ever need a chat, you have my number. Then I get to page 4, see nicks comment about second guessing and thought, he's alright...
Although offer still stands my handsome man x
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Ty all of you.
It's not a sob story.... or a cry for help. I'm getting there... slowly.
I've lost over a stone in weight, which I can ill afford to do !! I'm now concentrating on the negatives of our relationship. I dwelled on the positives, & that made me feel so down. we had great times, nice house, lots of love for each other...... but I look now at how she & her family plotted against me. It was never going to be easy from the start... but I didn't deserve what I got.
We used to go out as a foursome every sunday with Trish & Vinnie. 2 weeks back, they went out as a threesome! Vin was very uncomfortable with this.. but he went. I was not even allowed to know where they were going !!
So, as far as I'm concerened now..... feck her. She's left me in the sh!t.... but I don't care anymore. [ all my wages went into her account to pay the bills !! ]
As for Liz ?? we had a lovely couple of hours today. chatted for England [ or Scotland! ] she hugged me & held my hand for a while, & wants me to ring her & not just text her.
early days.... but we'll see. I'm optimistic
Good to hear things are on the up Derek and hope that this continues for you and this is the start of your future. I used to dwell on the positives and think about the good times and it got me nowhere. A friend then sat me down for about 2hrs solid and drilled into me how she treated me and how much of a cow she was etc etc. It was during these 2hrs that I realised she didnt belong on that pedestal and I was infact better off without her.
I am now practicing the art of baby making with anything that moves (safely) and have never been happier
Hope things go well with Liz mate
TY
The abuse has started on facebook !! as expected. biatch LOL
Liz & me of off to bakewell for lunch on Saturday. as I said, It's early days, we'll see.
Going to have a tart...?
without doubt
Gosh, i remember when it all started! Since then, my 17/18 year marriage went down the pan, moved to Manchester, moved out, wandered around, found my own place and for the last three months been in a relationship i think. The few months i spent on my own was excruciatingly painful but in retrospect well worth going through.
The only thing i can suggest here is never to look at past photos, delete all fb etc accounts, all associates connected to your past and so on. No point getting wounded by what happened.
Became so pessimistic about women after the behaviour of my ex, especially in relation to the children, debts and avoidance issues that i started to think that in all relationships women present a front, an illusion that rapidly dissipates, leaving their true colours showing. However, i have calmed down somewhat and have started to take each person on their own merits.
In a sense i have never been happier but never again will i give up my finances, autonomy and ambition for another.
You have to take risks to experience things, relationships and romance...
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