i agree totally with tim. no point of doing anything else before you get rid of the original valve.
4mm or 5mm vacuum/boost tube should be fine to use. as long as it is good quality tube and will not squash under vacuum.
connect the blitz BOV vac pipe to where the gauge is connected via a T piece with equal size bores. Back off the spring in the BOV so it is at a minimum setting see if it works and then incrmentally tighten it up until it holds the boost level you are currently running. but as said it is pointless doing this untill you get rid of the the broken original recirc valve.
the vac boost line does not just open the valve at the correct time bit it also keeps the valve closed until the trottle body is closed and vacuum is applied to the valve.
when the valve is under boost pressure the the same pressure is applied to each side of the valve opening piece via the big boost pipe and the small vac/boost pipe so the spring inside the valve keeps the opening part closed, due to the fact of the equal pressure from both sides. but when the vacuum is applied to the small vac/boost pipe it creates an unequal pressure difference and the boost pressure is now able to overcome the spring pressure and push the opening part of the valve open which releases the boost pressure.
So if there is no vac/boost pressure there is only the spring inside the recic valve that will hold the boost pressure back on the pipe so this is where you are leaking pressure from and why you have limited boost pressure.
well that is what i think is happening.